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Posted by: DawudMiracle 11 months ago

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I'm pretty certain that without my blog I'd not know half the people I do today. And that's where the internet, and specifically the blogosphere, is so amazing. With a blog you can build relationships with strangers in any corner of the world. That sort of reatch just wasn't possible a few years ago.

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    avpd8511 months ago

    What I know about online relationships is that they never do last like my offline ones.

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      DawudMiracle11 months ago

      I hear you. In a natural, organic manner, I'm watching my online relationships turn offline. Not all, but a few.

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    BronxBomber11 months ago

    Gee no difference. I get rejected either way!

    =o/

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    hsaleem11 months ago

    Huge difference.

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    simonsez11 months ago

    For some reason, everyone online thinks I'm a jerk. I've been called every name in the book except "nice guy". Even Mother sends me nasty emails.

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      BoxMonkey11 months ago

      I 'd have to agree to a generalization of your statement , simonsez . I feel the same way sometimes . It's like going fishing . Sometimes I'll put something comical out there [ interpretation is in the eye of the beholder ] and get all kinds of negative remarks . I think the major difference between online and offline relationships , is the readers voice . In person your inflections can make all the difference in the world .

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      Harbeas11 months ago

      You can call them your on-line friends if you wish. You have to be careful with them because the internet allows people to be anyone they want to be. Too often they are different than who they are portraying on the internet.

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        DawudMiracle11 months ago

        All the more reason I like to build relationships with people one-to-one, offline. The web just provides massive reach.

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        TweekerchickQC11 months ago

        I much prefer online. People think I'm awesome there.

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        texangelwings11 months ago

        I know of two Ozzie/US couples, online relationships, one set ended in a divorce and the other is still doing great!

        I have some friends who have tried the online relationships that worked well online, after meeting and spending time together, they ended up just staying friends.

        My husband and I went to several chat meets with friends that we chatted with online for over a year. (on ICQ) We went to Okla. for one meet and we ended up in Sarasota, Fl. during 9/11 for another meet.

        Some of the group went Baniff, Canada for one meet.

        Only one of the people who we had been chatting with for a year, was not who she appeared to be when meeting her in person. The rest of the people were great friends.

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          DawudMiracle11 months ago

          That's sweet. I don't travel as much these days, having a young family. But I do get out and meet other bloggers whenever I can.

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          globalwarmer11 months ago

          I've been here 2 years without a bio and never got around to adding friends but I think I've made more friends than enemies and I definitely have my favorites but I never think to go beyond the blog, I guess I just like the anonymity.

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            GWHayduke11 months ago

            Well, as a 17 year old hot cheerleader looking to hook up with 40 & 50 YO something men, I have to say that on-line relationships are, like, way better than the superficial guys I meet in school!

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              tchef11 months ago

              I think that people can say things online that they wouldn't say in person. It's like aggressive driving, you feel sheltered from the other person so you can act out in ways that you wouldn't face to face. I always try to stay civil and not insult anyone for their view.

              I have met a lot great people here, some that agree with me and some who don't. I come to discuss issues with people who know about them and care, I don't have too many that I can discuss things with on this level in my day to day life.

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                Francisca11 months ago

                Hi DawudMiracle! You wrote exactly what I am feeling concerning the friends we have online. I think we feel free to write what we don't dare to tell in the ordinary life. The relationship is certainly more passionate, but as you say, shortest. And I really think the true friend, the real friend is the one you have since years and years and the one who stays your friend despite serious quarrel, the one for who you could do anything. Thank you for your blog!

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                  reasonablerobinson9 months, 3 weeks ago

                  This is an example in practice - who the hell would have heard what a guy from Carlisle in the UK would have said, around the world 50 years ago!

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